Be the best You you can be. How do you WANT to define yourself? What activities, qualities, hobbies, or loves do you want to be associated with? "Oh, she's a writer." "Or him? He's the most generous guy you'll ever meet." "Them? They know everything there is to know about dogs." If you fall short of those lofty ideals, do not fret. Most everyone believes themselves to be less than they are -- less than other people see them. I have a coworker who calls me a writer. Inside, I doubt. I list my failures as if the sheer weight of them buries that label like the rubble from a broken building. I am a writer. Not despite my failures, or even because of them. I am a writer because writing makes me more like Me. I can do better. I can become more Me than I am, but that doesn't mean I cannot claim the title. That doesn't make me unworthy of it. I love to learn. I love to organize things. I love cute things ...
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